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Open adoption refers to a type of adoption in which birth and adoptive families have some form of initial and\/or ongoing contact. Openness in adoption can provide a child or youth with valuable connections to his or her past. No single open arrangement, however, is right for everyone. Open adoption relationships, like all relationships, change and evolve as the individuals involved reach different stages in their lives. Communication and contact may increase or decrease at different times, reflecting varying needs, interests, and life situations of the children and youth who have been adopted, birth parents, and adoptive families.<\/p>\n
While common openness fears and myths<\/a> persist, today, most adopted children and youth know that they are adopted, and many adoptive families have had some contact with birth families. A national study of adoptive families in the United States found that in approximately one-third of all adoptive families, the adoptive parents or the adopted child or youth had some contact with the birth family after the adoption. Post adoption contact occurred more often in private domestic adoption (68 percent) as compared with adoption from foster care (39 percent) and international adoption (6 percent). A more recent study among U.S. adoption agencies reported that almost all (95 percent) of their domestic infant adoptions were open.<\/p>\n As with any relationship, there may be bumps and challenges along the way in the relationships between birth and adoptive families. Through careful consideration of options, a clear child-focused approach, a strong support system and commitment to making it work, and you can decide what level of openness is right for your family.<\/p>\n Child Welfare Information Gateway. (2013) The Open-Hearted Way to Open Adoption<\/strong> There are many resources on why to do open adoption, but what about how? Open adoption isn’t just something parents do when they exchange photos, send emails, or share a visit. It’s a lifestyle that may feel intrusive at times, be difficult or inconvenient at other times. Tensions can arise even in the best of circumstances. But knowing how to handle these situations and how to continue to make arrangements work for the child involved is paramount. This book offers readers the tools and the insight to do just that. It covers common open-adoption situations and how real families have navigated typical issues successfully. Like all useful parenting books, it provides parents with the tools to come to answers on their own, and answers questions that might not yet have come up.<\/p>\n Through their own stories and those of other families of open adoption, Lori and Crystal review the secrets to success, the pitfalls and challenges, the joys and triumphs. By putting the adopted child at the center, families can come to enjoy the benefits of open adoption and mitigate the challenges that may arise.<\/p>\n More than a how-to, this book shares a mindset\u2014a heartset\u2014that can be learned and internalized, so parents can choose to act out of love and honesty throughout their child\u2019s growing up years, helping that child to grow up whole.<\/p>\n Open Adoption 101: What to Consider, How to Establish, and Ways to Stay Connected<\/strong><\/a> A Deeper Conversation on Information Sharing in Adoption: Compromise Offers Promise and Keeps Promises<\/strong>
\nOpenness in adoption: Building relationships between adoptive and birth families. Washington, DC: U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, Children\u2019s Bureau.<\/em><\/p>\nLearn More<\/h2>\n
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\nLori Holden, 2013<\/em>
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Prior to 1990, fewer than 5 percent of domestic infant adoptions were open. In 2012, 90 percent or more of adoption agencies are recommending open adoption. Yet these agencies do not often or adequately prepare either adopting parents or birth parents for the road ahead of them! The adult parties in open adoptions are left floundering.<\/p>\nOnline Learning<\/h3>\n
\nOnline course offered by StageWise Parenting<\/em>
\nOpen adoption can be a scary and difficult relationship to understand. This course will explain open adoption, will help you to understand the expectant parent and birth parent perspectives, and will offer some strategies for making openness part of your everyday life.<\/p>\nArticles and Websites<\/h3>\n
\nAdoption Advocate No. 46<\/a>, National Council for Adoption, April 2012<\/em><\/p>\n